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We didn’t really touch on my son or the situation with his father etc, we mostly just talked about our interests, goals, so on & so forth. When everyone was ready to leave (we had come in separate vehicles, obviously) he asked me to ride in the car with him & his friends.
So I told the group of friends I came with that I was going with him.
I know my boyfriend will understand if it doesn’t happen before he leaves, but I want him to meet my son just as badly as he does. Yes, if it doesn’t work out then your son attachment to this man is all for not.
I feel like your intuition has kept you from saying yes.
I keep putting it off and putting it off, but he’s starting to question whether or not I’m even all that serious about him, which I am, I really am. If you want him to before deployment than you call the shots .. Waiting shouldn’t change anything if feelings on his part are sincere. I thought perhaps your son might be old enough that he remembers. So your only concern then is how it’s going to make the marine dude feel.
We have nothing but love and trust for one another, this man & I almost never fight. I did put the idea of him meeting my son into his head, especially considering he’s deploying soon.. Sorry, I wrote this having not slept for over 36 hours! I gave the “backstory” simply because I figured someone would say it was way too soon to introduce him to my son, so I just wanted to give everyone an idea of how everything happened & some insight as to how emotionally connected this man & I have been from the start. The only reason I have doubts with him meeting my son is because I don’t want my boyfriend to get overly attached to my son (which I know he will, he’s already crazy about him & he hasn’t even met him) and then maybe say he’s not able to be as involved as he’d like to be with my son.
Never made a post here before, but at this point I’m desperate for an UNBIASED opinion.
I’ve kept this relationship extremely private (although he hasn’t, I’m literally plastered all over his social media) because I just didn’t want to risk someone interfering with it & just because this man is honest to god the best thing that’s happened to me since my son. You will especially know this as you sit there and count the days.
DILEMMA; My boyfriend has been continuously asking me as of recently to meet my son. I’d consider waiting until he returns to meet your son. No time for the usual dating rituals when you’re dating a marine.
That small voice serves a purpose; it keeps us guarded, sheltering us from life’s uncertainties.
Your new BF sounds like a wonderful sincere young man.
During our convo in the club, he didn’t really talk about his career in the military, which I understood because who wants to talk about work when you’re not at work?! He caught on to the fact that I had gotten quiet & just looked over at me & asked “bad experience with one, huh?