28 year old woman dating 19 year old guy
So I think you want to go and rethink your beliefs and stereotype attitude towards men. If you have followed the typical stages of maturity and mental/emotional development, you will be in a completely different phase of your life.
The average 18 year old is fresh from high school, sometimes barely into university, usually without much experience of responsibilities or relationships.
They've been together a year and he is awesome to her, never cheated or messed her around. So just because a guy is 27 and the girl is 18, that automatically means he's going to '**** her and chuck her'?????
Sorry, but you're just making assumptions and over-generalisations by judging the age gap without actually knowing anything about the guy. A big age gap doesn't automatically mean a guy is just using a girl for sex.
You don't want a woman who has had past relationships, because she'll actually know what she wants in life, and she won't put up with bull****. I said 'date who you want, as long as it's legal and you both like each other'. I've got nothing against women who are 25 to 35 as people. It just means he prefers to date younger girls, that's all.
You don't want someone with laughter lines and experience, despite the fact you'll end up exactly the same. Nowhere did I say 'a 50 yr old man should date 12 year old girls'. You don't want an independent, mature, intelligent and challenging woman.
In that case, he won't want anything serious, and as long as she shares those expectations, they'll get on just fine. No idea why you'd think that I was implying that 18 year old boys are wonderful options when it comes to dating. If you have followed the typical stages of maturity and mental/emotional development, you will be in a completely different phase of your life.
Age doesn't matter, and anyone who has a problem with older guys dating younger guys well it's their problem. So you must think it's fine and dandy for a 50 year old man and a 12 year old girl to have a relationship then. You want someone who won't demand commitment from you because she's too naïve to know that she deserves it. So I don't get why you automatically think that a guy who dates younger girls is a '****' to them. I would date a girl who also doesn't want serious relationship.